Monday, December 15, 2014

Near death experience: Grandpa Tingey 2014

 

 

2014 Near Death Experience:  Dale Tingey

 

On October 13th, my grandchildren wanted to go eat at a little Mexican restaurant.  I had the enchiladas and thought they didn’t taste too well.  That night I became ill.  I was very sick for a couple of days and on Thursday, I couldn’t stand up and was so weak Shannan called the ambulance.  They took me to the ER.  I ended up in the ICU at Intermountain Regional Hospital in Provo.  I was very miserable.  All I recall is that they said my blood pressure was down to 60/30.  They needed to get something in to me.  I couldn’t eat anything for 2 or 3 days.  They diagnosed me with e-coli.  I was in severe pain feeling terrible all the time.

On Saturday, the 18th, I remember having severe pain when appeared a lighted tunnel, leading to a beautiful area.  I felt that I wanted to go there and so I started to walk.  As I walked into the light, all the pain disappeared and I was in euphoria and feeling so good.  I looked back and I could see my body lying there.  I seemed to be walking normally.  It was a beautiful experience.  I was hoping maybe Jeanette might be waiting for me.  However, I saw no one and began to feel guilty, remembering that I had my daughter, Shannan, and her three children living with me.  I had respoinsibility for taking care of them.  My guilt seemed to increase the more I walked.  Finally, I turned around and started back.  I saw my remains laying there and I walked right into my body.  At that moment, I awoke in great pain and frustration.  It was a very real lifelike experience.  I immedidiately began to get better.  In fact, on the 19th, my daughter, Diane, who had been with me in the hospital all the time said it was like a miracle.  I felt much better and the next day they moved me into a private room where I stayed for another 5 days.  They were trying to build me back up.  I went for days without food and was pretty weak, but I was feeling very good and happy to go home on the 24th

I thought I would record this for my children because Diane had called them all Saturday and evidently told htem I was near death, if they wanted to see me they needed to come immediately.  So, most of my children were able to come and visit and see me when I was recovering.  It was a joy to see their faces, but sorry it had to be under these circumstances. 

Halloween 2014

Halloween was another fun one! I braved the ward cook off/carnival alone w all 4 while J was in Ca for work...crazy😳 Keat was a mad scientist, Jonas was a black panther, thad was Spider-Man (& loved it I might add!) Jude was a pesos/tigger. Jas & I were Deb & Pedro. Lots of fun trick or treating w cousins!












Sunday, December 14, 2014

The man who delivers flowers, candy, and much more.


By Sherry Young, Deseret News

Published: Wed, Aug. 20 5:30 p.m. MD

 Dale Tingey is the man who delivers.

Dale Tingey is the man who delivers.

(Sherry Young)

Many years ago, LDS Church President Spencer W. Kimball called in a young man who had distinguished himself early in life and asked him if he was willing to serve in a calling to assist Native Americans, and that is just what Dale Tingey has done. He became president of the Southwest Indian Mission of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints from 1968-1971. While serving in that capacity, he was made aware of the language, customs, disadvantages and plight of those people.

In his next position as director ofAmerican Indian Services (online atamericanindianservices.org), where he has tirelessly shown his vision, passion, hard work and belief in a forgotten people, President Kimball’s vision was carried out.

Our neighbors, Shannon and Todd Miller, Grit and I as well as many others know what an amazing man he is, but we also know him as the man who delivers flowers and candy on occasion, and cherries and peaches, all given with a great big smile by our wonderful friend.

Dale is a very wise man indeed. He learned early on if the women in their men’s lives liked him, the men were more willing to help him with his programs. He was especially nice to wives and secretaries, but then he likes everybody and everybody likes him back.

In turn, when my husband, Grit, has an abundance of vegetables he grows every year, he takes them to Dale because we know he goes out delivering them to his grateful Indian friends.

Todd remembers going to the annual Great American Indian Shootout tournaments when he was just 6 years old and then after his Mormon mission helping his dad, Johnny, with the Thanksgiving Point event in Lehi each year. The funds raised from the tournament enable the Indian Services, a private nonprofit foundation, to give scholarships and assist Native Americans in their pursuit of higher education.

Our sons Steve and Tom have traveled with Dale many times on his little plane to speak to Native American youths in various places, as Todd also did.

Tom remembers when Dale would take off in his single engine plane, Dale and Steve in the front and him in the back. I well remember it, too. The boys were single then but it made me very nervous in spite of knowing Dale, who is an experienced pilot and has had a private pilot’s license since he was 15 years old, was capable and careful.

They would fly into the Navajo Nation, Tuba City and the Havasupai Reservation near the bottom of the Grand Canyon.

The landings were usually on a dirt strip that looked deserted. After a few minutes, people young and old would come running from everywhere waving their arms and shouting. Todd remembers speaking at high schools in the Navajo Nation as well.

Dale was like a rock star. He knew all of the people by name and made them feel great. He had a big heart, encouraging them to rise above their poverty. He housed them in his own home through the years, especially when his wife, Jeanette, who died in 2001, was alive. He stressed education as the door of opportunity for them.

Dale relinquished some of the running of the organization last year when he turned 90 years old but still goes to the office every day offering his wit and wisdom to whatever is going on.

John P. Livingstone in his book, “Same Drum, Different Beat: The Story of Dale T. Tingey and American Indian Services,” said, “He has remained true to his calling and tried to get each needed job done quickly and well. His breakneck pace and lively, fun way of working with people have endeared him to all.”

Throughout his life, he has been and still is the man who delivers.


Grandpa Tingey message -- sept 2014 - eye surgery

Dear Family,

 

We were blessed in the state of Utah by having the dedication of the Ogden Temple shown in our sacrament meeting. We were supposed to have a temple recommend or a special ticket from the Bishop, which was available to everyone.

 

It was a very nice program with beautiful remarks by Elder Russell Ballard, a dear friend since the days we went to college at the University of Utah, then all of us went on a mission and have stayed together, meeting every other month for 65 years. Also, Elder Oaks gave a very nice talk. He even quoted Abraham Lincoln as one who was concerned about the dead and their need for our blessings and of course, the temple work takes care of that.

 

One of my former missionaries, who is now a General Authority, Elder Craig Fisher, was in charge of the whole program and invited me to come, but I thought I’d rather be here with the family and enjoy it. So, it was very nice.

 

I am writing to ask if you would remember me in your prayers this Friday. I’m finally going to have this delicate eye operation, which they have been studying and testing for 3 months. They now feel that there’s a leakage of blood behind the eye. One specialist will go in and take care of that, one will replace the lens on the eye, and another will supervise all of the testing and experimenting. Dr. Vitali will assist. It’s hard to believe they have to have three doctors to perform an eye operation, but it is delicate and I pray the Lord will bless me, I’ve lost total vision in my eye, that He will be able to restore at least some of it, but hopefully all of it.

 

Interestingly enough, one very special doctor, Dr. Crandall, is married to my niece, Berdine and Conway’s daughter. While he was examining one day, she came in a gave me a big hug. I couldn’t quite place her, but it’s nice to know that I have a connection there. At least I feel more comfortable. She said she would give him the best counsel she could.


We hope that things are well with you and that the Lord is blessing you in your life and families. It’s the only real hope we have, is in the Church and the Kingdom and our trust and faith in Jesus Christ and His promises and blessings. I wish them all upon you and your family. Keep the faith! The Church is true and the Lord can solve all our problems, but He’ll let us do it the way we want. I love you and enjoy hearing from you. Send me a picture of your family.


Love ya,

 

Grandpa


Scripture challenge from Grandpa Tingey -- Sept 2014

I am just driving back on Saturday morning from the Post-Op Review. Happy to announce that for the first time in four months I am able to see out of my right eye. It is just a little blurry, but the doctor assures me it is going to clear up and things will be much better. It is a lot better just being able to see the countryside, but not the details right now.

 

It’s been kind of hard for me to read because, even though my left eye is good, the bad eye casts a shadow over the good eye so it was a challenge to read. I have decided that I am going to reread the scriptures again.

 

I would like to invite you to accept the challenge with me and use spare time to enjoy the scriptures. I reread again the powerful talk that President Ezra Taft Benson gave about reading the Book of Mormon often and the promises that goes with that.

 

The Church has just come out with a little packet of scriptures, all sealed together. It’s similar to the Book of Mormon and the New Testament the Church used to provide when we were in the military. I remember well carrying a little Book of Mormon with me. It was beautiful. When we had a spare moment, we could read the scriptures when of course you couldn’t carry a big Book of Mormon or a Bible around. I am sending you these sealed packs of scriptures so that you can put one in your purse, one on the kitchen table, one in your car, one on your desk, and one by your bedside so you will always have access to scriptures when you have a few minutes to relax and enjoy it.

 

I remember teaching at BYU, some of the overenthusiastic professors were always anxious for the day when they would read the sealed part of the Book of Mormon. Most of us didn’t read the part that wasn’t sealed very often. I am challenging you to unseal these books and start reading a little each day from one or the other. There’s a magic in reading the scriptures. You don’t have to start at the beginning and read through it. I find it interesting just to open it and kind of thumb through a couple of chapters and see if there is something of interest I would like to read and then read that which inspires me. There are so many golden treasures in the scriptures. I wish I had served in a mission where they memorized scriptures. Our main thrust was trying to learn the Czechoslovakian language instead of memorizing scriptures. I still try and memorize a scripture every month just to feel the power it has over you.

 

I was just thinking of one or two scriptures just to say it to myself, brings me a thrill and excitement. For instance, in Ether 12:4 he says, “Whoso believeth in God might with surety hope for a better world, even a place at the right hand of God, which hope cometh of faith, which faith gives an anchor to the souls of men and make them sure and steadfast, always abounding in good works, being led to praise God.” That’s pretty much the correct scripture, but just think of the power in that, or in 2 Nephi 9:41, which is probably my favorite doctrinarian chapter in the Book of Mormon. It is a beautiful statement. He says, “O, my beloved brethren, come unto the Lord, the Holy One of Israel. And remember, his paths are righteousness, and the way for man is narrow, and it lieth in a straight course before him, and the keep of the gate is the Holy One of Israel, and he employeth no servant there. And no one cometh in except through the gate for he cannot be deceived, for He is the Lord God of Israel.” That always inspires me to try and do a little better. 

If you would like to be humble, in that same 2 Nephi9:28, Jacob teaches, “Oh the vainness and the frailties and the foolishness of men. For when they are learned, they think they are wise and they hearken not unto the counsel of the Lord, supposing they know for themselves that their wisdom is foolishness and it profit them nothing, and they shall perish, but to be learned is good if the person hearkens unto the counsel of the Lord.” Who could read John 3:16 and not be inspired. “God so loved the world that he sent his Only Begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him shall not perish, but have everlasting life.” What a wonderful gift, blessing and promise. The Lord himself says, “I am the way, the truth and the life.” Someone has added to that, “Without the way, there is no going; without the truth, there is no knowing; and without his life there is no living eternally.”

 

Unfortunately, most of the scriptures are sealed because we don’t open them and read them. They say why a lot of people joined the Church when they first read the Book of Mormon, was because they were familiar with the Bible, the spirit, the feeling and the witness came from reading the Bible, they felt that same spirit and blessing when they read the Book of Mormon. People don’t read the Bible anymore, or the Book of Mormon either, so how can we ever know the Lord when we don’t take time to read His word, which He has made possible for everyone to read now. Do you ever get solicitations from different organizations to provide Bibles for the Jews or Bibles to go to China or Africa? Try supporting one of these projects and you’ll feel a good spirit and realize how precious the word is for people who would like to read it, but don’t have access.

 

I would like to provide a set of these little books for any of your children who would commit to read all of them except the Old Testament. That is a hard one. I don’t read it much myself, only for references, but it has  wonderful lessons and stories. I still read my old seminary and institute books I used to teach from because you can get right to the story or the message without all the background. I do try and read something spiritual each day, but I’m going to make the effort to read these scriptures again and receive the blessings and promises that President Ezra Taft Benson gave the Church when he was trying to get the members to flood the world with the Book of Mormon.

 

I love you!

 

Grandpa


Greetings from Gpa Tingey Oct 2014


From: dale@americanindianservices.org
To: jenntwright@gmail.comjasonpwright@hotmail.com
Subject: Greetings
Date: Wed, 15 Oct 2014 13:40:06 -0600

Dear Jenni & Jason,

 

Just a note of sincere thanks for the invitation to join you at the blessing of your baby. It was a delightful experience and you gave the baby a beautiful blessing, Jason, I wish it could have been recorded, but I know they were trying to take some notes. I enjoyed both of your testimonies.

 

Thanks also for the lovely lunch and a chance to visit with your mom and the others. It was fun and Shannan and the girls enjoyed it also.

 

You are to be commended. Jude is a beautiful addition to the three handsome boys you have now. I hope you can chance that picture you have hanging on the wall, but that is a classic.

 

It was sure nice to visit with your mom. I love and appreciate her for the wonderful job she did in raising you kids and teaching you correct principles to love the Lord and serve Him.

 

I wish you every good blessing now with another gift that the Lord has sent you. How lucky this child to live in your home.

 

We love you and admire you and look forward to seeing you again one of these days when I am going through your area.


Thanks for your faith and prayers regarding my eye operation. I am so grateful to be able to see again.

 

Love ya,


Grandpa

 

Dale T. Tingey, Ph.D

Associate Director

American Indian Services

1902 N. Canyon Road, Ste. 100

Provo, UT 84604

(801) 375-1777

 

Message from Grandpa Tingey

November 9, 2014

 

Dear Family,

 

It’s Sunday here in Zion and I’ve just been sitting here watching a beautiful sunset and hoping that you are having the same kind of weather. I am happy that Halloween is behind us. I wasn’t feeling too well, but I endured, sat up and fed the trick or treaters as long as I could. They brighten my spirit also, but I am glad it’s over.

 

I am looking forward to one of my favorite holidays and that is Thanksgiving. I sure have a lot to be thankful for. I am thankful for your faith and prayers and am blessed to survive the ordeal in the hospital. I never knew it was so tough in that ICU, but I’ve been home for over a week and feeling better. I even go to work for a few hours a day, so I am grateful for my health and also for my eye operation that was successful.

 

Just on Friday I was up to the Moran Eye Center in Salt Lake to have the stitches removed. The doctor said it is looking good. I can see out of it pretty well and he says it will get better. I have to be back up there Monday morning at quarter to 8 to meet with the other doctor that does retina work. It is amazing what they can do.

 

Thanksgiving is a day that I will be thankful for all the blessings that I’ve enjoyed, especially the speedy recovery I’ve had and for the kindness of all of you. I was reading in the paper a few interesting things about Thanksgiving and will try and use some of it here with Shannan’s family. I would like to suggest them for you if you are interested.

 

·         Encourage the children each day at perhaps dinner time to say something that they are thankful for that day. It would even be fun to record them.

 

President Monson, in one of his talks, told about a minister who, each dinner hour, asked each child something they have done to help another or make a person happier. The great effect it had upon the children to be more conscious of other people. To ask each family member about a daily act of service they could do to help someone to make them happy would be a nice dinner conversation.

 

The word Thanks-Giving could be used to think about giving something to others to celebrate Thanksgiving. The children used to accuse me of being generous of giving some of their stuff to the Indian people. I am a little guilty of that. There is a great joy in sharing clothing, a coat/jacket, flowers or a bag of apples to make someone happy.

 

Of course, the greatest gift we have to be thankful for is Jesus Christ. The Lord so loved the world that He sent His Only Begotten Son. Whosoever believeth in Him will have eternal life.

 

As I grow older, I appreciate more and more this wonderful gift and for the Lord’s influence in my life and for the blessings He gives us day by day.


We will be thinking about you as we approach the Thanksgiving Season and pray that you also will be thankful for the many gifts that we enjoy.

 

Love ya,

 

Grandpa